Nadine's Grizzly Slot
Salutations to everyone
It's that time of the week when I post my grizzly ramblings and thoughts that are in my head!
Secrets, yes those thoughts and actions you keep to yourself to hide, cover up or deceive from others!
I thought about all this while stuck at my day job and saw a colleague buying items on their lunch break, taking these said items out of the box, storing the empty packaging at work and then taking the item home, giving the illusion to their partner that its always been in the household and wasn’t a recent purchase!
Is this bad or just very clever? Do we do it to avoid confrontation or are we hiding deeper issues like addiction, self loathing, embarrassment etc?
How far would we go to keep something from a loved one, colleague, friend or family member would it be best just to be honest and talk about what you are holding a secret about?
These are possibly unconventional approaches to partnerships and lovers, which find you pursuing very eccentric or different methods of interacting. However real power is always hidden, finding it means delving into secret places. The forbidden and taboo areas, the great mysteries that no one speaks about in polite company, were whispers can effect those persons involved, compelling them to investigate when a hint of a secret is uncovered!
Though secrets may not be a bad thing, what about the situations were you need to keep things close to your chest till there ready to be announced, like business adventures, jobs, love lives, sexuality and birthdays? We can all relate to those 'sexuality' secrets with those hidden feelings, not wanting to let out how you feel and the urges burning deep inside you!
We all have something we don’t want others to know whether these be good or bad, ultimately it's how you handle these hidden actions, thoughts and feelings, what intent you plan to use them for, at what point do you feel comfortable with releasing your secret and for what purpose!
Do I have secrets I hear you cry? Of course I do I am human after all, I would be a liar if I didn’t have any and it wouldn’t be a secret if I blasted them out on here!
But remember 'Ignorance is bliss and the Truth will set you free'
Have a great weekend and Mamma luv's you all xxx
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